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Sunday, 08 November 2009

  • listening comprehension

    Tonight's sermon was on Ephesians 6:1-4.  Pastor Jeff was pointing out that the command to obey parents is not qualified with any age limitations.

    Me:  "Did you hear that?  Uncle Jeff said that kids have to honor and obey their moms and dads forever.  Even when they're teenagers and even when they're grown ups."

    E:  "One day, you're going to die." 

Monday, 02 November 2009

  • Flaming Racist: What would you do?

    OMG. I felt like I was in some twisted SNL sketch.

    So, we're in the DMV, getting California license plates for an idiotic amount of money. While we're in the line to take our number, we notice a group of older Chinese men doing their best to figure out the system. They're already at a service window together, but waiting for service. Each of them appear very haggard, frail and timid looking. English is not their first language, but one of them is leading the rest in the process. A different one of them leaves the window and has to pass through the line we're standing in so he can exit the building.

    He heads behind us to cut through the line. From behind us we hear a young, but agitated, loud voice: "Say excuse me next time. I don't want to touch you. Don't make me touch you." We turn around to see a young man on his cell phone, talking down to the elderly Chinese man who keeps on walking, either ignoring the young man, or not knowing he was being addressed.

    We get through the line pretty quickly and take our seats in the waiting room. The young man is seated next to his lady friend. They look normal enough.

    Enter a different Chinese man, unaffiliated with the other Chinese men. He walks in the room and starts hocking the most hellacious loogie into the trash can. It was so loud, and disgusting that everyone in the waiting room recoiled. But, we hear a familiar voice as the bad SNL Sketch begins...

    Him: "Oh my God!"
    Her: "That is disgusting!"
    Him: "Chinese people are f*****g disgusting."
    Her: "I can't believe he did that"
    Him: "That was a real Chinese"

    My head WHIPS around and we lock eyes.

    Him: "Chinese people are nasty. Japanese are cool, and Koreans are ok. But Chinese..."

    I'll stop here and ask what you would think, say, do?

Thursday, 22 October 2009

  • Academic Integrity

    The other day, E's preschool teacher stopped me after class.  Beaming, she told me that the director of the preschool had just lead a parents tour and stopped by their class to observe.  It was Bible time and one of the teachers was quizzing the kids on their comprehension of the stories they had learned over the course of the last few weeks (mostly about Moses).  There, before the watchful eyes of prospective preschool parents, E's teacher was nervous that none of the 3 year olds would be able to answer.  She happily reported that E not only answered the questions, but went on to tell the rest of the narratives.  She added that the parents were wowed.

    I told my daughter how happy it made me that she knew the Bible stories.  A day later, she and I had this brief exchange on the way home from school.

    E:  "Hey Dad, do you know how I knew the answers to my teacher's questions?"

    J:  "How?"

    E:  *whispers* "I have the movie."

Wednesday, 14 October 2009

  • The Wonder in Wunderkind

    It took me longer than usual to get out from under the crush of e-mails today.  The kids, therefore, had watched more TV than I like them to watch.  Once we turned off the TV, I put our son to bed and had some time with our daughter.

    I asked myself what would be age-appropriate for her to start learning these days... Newtonian Mechanics via simple machines, perhaps?  After failing to find a suitable (for a 3.5 year old) game based on Rube Goldberg Contraptions, I decided astronomy would have to do. 

    We quickly covered the planets, our sun's gravitational pull and orbits, the Milky Way.  Then, E wanted to look at the moon.  So, we talked about moon landings and I showed her a picture of the Apollo 11 astronauts.  Then, I showed her a more recent team of astronauts and immediately she said, "There's girl astronauts."

    "Yup.  Girls can be astronauts.  Would you like to go to the moon?"

    "Yes!"

    So, we watched a space shuttle launch on YouTube from two different vantage points, and she watched a 10 minute tour of the International Space Station by herself as I helped our son fall back asleep.  She asked, "When can we go to outer space?"

    I'm pretty sure that my delight in her exceeds her wonder. 

Tuesday, 13 October 2009

  • Daddy Blog

    My wife and a lot of our mutual friends-who-are-mothers keep these blogs that, I must confess, I love to read.  Partly, these friends are gifted women with fascinating lives.  Partly, they write and think about areas of life that I should hear and learn more about. 

    I could write their (inc. my wife's) praises for lines and lines.  But it's daddy time.

    Mondays are a doozy for me.  The day before, Sunday, is typically a work day for me now that I'm a real, live pastor ().  So, already, my energy level is a little low from meeting, greeting, etc.  But Mondays are still the day I think I look forward to most right now, for the following reasons:

    1.  Mondays, I have class.  I love learning.  Right now, my class is somewhat intimidating b/c there are people there who are wayyyyy smarter than I.  But at 30 years old, I'm finally learning how to delight in others' giftedness.  So, I'm being sharpened, and it feels great!

    2.  I get 3-4:30 all to myself.  If I can get myself to stop freaking out about things I could be doing, this is an amazing time of solitude and silence.  Plus, I get to ride the bus.  It just feels so right to take public transit. 

    3.  Mondays, Lisa has class at night.  That means, I get to bathe the kids and put them to bed.  I LOVE feeding babies.  Ever since I finger-fed my newborn daughter in the hospital, I've loved having the chance to feed my babies.  Bottle feeding my son is a treat, too.  Bathing and putting the kids to bed is also fun.  Reading to my daughter is just another chance to teach her about life in the Kingdom of God.  Oh, and when Lisa's not here, I can throw my son up in the air to make him laugh without her feeling anxious. hehehehe.

    *Daddy DilemmaOk, dads.  It's bath time and you've just filled the baby's tub and the bath tub.  Big sister is in the tub and you've just put little brother in the baby tub.  As you begin to wash the little stinker, you feel something warmer than the water you've put in the tub.  That's right, your little champ is peeing in his bath water.  What do you do?  Wash him in his own pee?  Throw him in the tub with Sister Chaos who thrashes and splashes about wildly?  Just skip bath time? 

    Tuesdays are a close second because a.) I get to be in charge of the kids again (though for less time) and b.) I like seeing my co-workers after the weekend since most of them take Monday off.  (weak sauce; j/k) 

    Well, this certainly was no mommy blog in either gender or caliber.  But I thought a daddy blog entry was long overdue.

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